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💬 Social life and community

Chat, friends, bonds, groups, live rooms, home visits, consent and safety.

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Social & community

💬 Social life and community

Chat, friends, bonds, groups, live rooms, home visits, consent and safety.

Updated Harbour build · attributes & dailyApplies to MyLife Lagos v0.1Game money only

Chat and direct messages

The city chat is public to players in the same age space. Direct messages are private between you and the other player. You can react to messages, reply, forward, edit or delete your own message within 15 minutes, and report a message with recent evidence.

Player names, handles and typed messages are never machine-translated. The interface around them is translated into your selected language.

Friends and bonds

Friend requests expire after three days. A bond grows when you show up, chat and make plans; it cools if you disappear. Some actions require mutual consent, and a declined invitation is treated as if it never happened.

You can block a player. Blocking hides their messages and prevents knocks and visits in both directions.

BondLabelWhat opens
0–29AcquaintanceBasic chat and plans
30–59PadiCloser social actions
60–84Close PadiBest-friend goal progress, crew invites
85–100Best friendsStrongest socials, home visits and bail help

Groups and crews

Groups hold up to 24 members, three pinned messages and a shared plan up to three days ahead. Invitations, RSVPs and @mentions create notifications.

A crew has a name, badge, members and a weekly score. Claimed daily tasks give 40 points, raid medals 30 and votes 15. Weekly chests unlock at 120, 240 and 360 points for ₦250, ₦750 and ₦2,000. Crews are social status, not a shared bank.

Live rooms and voice

Live rooms have a topic, host, capacity and a live text feed. Rooms close when the last person leaves or after 45 minutes. Teens only see rooms opened by teens.

Voice notes are recorded in the browser, capped at two minutes and 2.5 MB. Live voice rooms use WebRTC; the host can mute or remove a participant. Never share personal information in a room.

Home visits

A player can open their home to visitors in Phone → Homes. A visitor must be online, in the same city, in the same age space, not blocked, and the host must approve the knock. The host can admit, decline or end the visit.

While visiting, you can see the host’s 3D room, use the home chat and leave a rating after the visit. The host can entertain admitted guests for ₦220, which improves both players’ Fun and Social. Private homes never appear in the directory.

Safety and moderation

  • You must be 13 or older. Players aged 13–17 are separated from adults in public social spaces.
  • No harassment, hate, threats, doxxing, scams, sexual content involving minors or spam.
  • Reports include recent message evidence. Accounts can be warned, muted, restricted or suspended.
  • Never share your address, school, phone number, password or financial details.
  • Any request for real money is a scam. Game money never needs a real payment.
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